Anger

In this world there are 3 types of people:

• People that gets angry easily and blame others for reacting to their anger, e.g. for scolding them back or fighting back.
• People that are at ease with themselves most of the time and rarely starts a fight out of no reason unless provoked very intentionally. However when they are provoked, they could fight back relentlessly.
• People that are at ease with themselves most of the time and can always contain the anger of the persons in the first category. Stays composed even if provoked.

I certainly belong to the second group and I seriously think some divine being is training me to become the 3rd group, by bringing to me someone of the 1st group, so that I can be “enlightened” and “graduate” within this lifetime. Zen.

I have seen for myself representatives in the 3rd group and I admire their ability.

快乐

一个人的不快乐，往往不是因为别人，而是自己内心深处的不快乐(non-fulfilment, 不是not happy)。而这份不快乐，常常会被路人甲所引发，比如说话不中听或行事不中意，或意见不相同之类的。那不快乐的人就会认为是路人甲导致他的不快乐，而且还常常发生。

要知道炸药和导火线的区别：导火线本身无害，但在炸药旁边就变得致命。炸药本身是致命的，没有导火线也可能因为别的原因而爆炸。

人一定要搞清楚什么是炸药（自己的不快乐），什么是导火线（身边的人不经意地说错话，认为他不了解自己，总是和自己作对之类的），对症下药，正视问题，然后从中解决。不然就会误人误己一生。